Your First Time With
a New Vibrator
So you've got your new vibrator, but you're not quite sure what to do
with it. Don't worry, because this walk-through has the answers you
need.
Start off by reviewing the Smart Rules
for Vibrator Usage. Then, there are a few steps you need to take Before
Using your Vibrator, and you should also decide whether or not you need
to Use a Lube with your Vibrator. After that, there are tips on Using
Your Vibrator for the First Time and also on Cleaning up Afterwards.
The 6 Smart Rules for Using your Vibrator
1. Never insert any vibrator to the
point that it cannot be easily controlled and removed.
2. Always clean your vibrator after use.
3. To make clean-up easier, you could place a condom over your
vibrators before use.
4. Use only compatible water-based lubricants with condoms and latex
toys.
5. If pain or discomfort occurs while using your vibrator, stop
immediately.
6. Do not use your vibrator on broken or irritated skin.
Before Using your New Vibrator
When you first get your vibrator, carefully take it out of the box.
Check over the box or any instructions to see if your vibrator has any
safety tips or special instructions. After this, you need to gently wash
your vibrator with warm water and mild soap – taking care not to get the
battery compartment or controls wet. Dry your vibrator off with a clean
towel and you’re getting closer.
To Lube or not to Lube
If you’re not sure, lubes basically serve as a fill-in for the natural
lubricant produced by a woman’s vagina. There are all several different
varieties of lubes geared for special purposes, including vibrator use.
If you intend to use an anal vibrator, then lube is an absolute
necessity. Only lube will provide a smooth, safe penetration for your
vibrator while allowing for easy removal. It’s also a good idea to use
lube with any vibrator that provides clitoral stimulation. Several lubes
have unique properties like heating up when friction is applied to them
that can enhance stimulation and take your vibrator thrills even
further. Some women can use their vibrator safely and comfortably for
vaginal penetration without using lube. Most women, however, have a
difficulty time being aroused by a simple piece of plastic, and they
rely on lube to help get things started. Since this is your first time
with a vibrator, it’s better to play it safe and cautious by using lube
your first few times and then making a decision.
Taking your New Vibrator for a Spin
Regardless of which vibrator out of the hundreds of models catches your
imagination, sexual therapists agree that there’s one basic rule for
using a vibrator – if it feels good, then keep doing it! This is partly
because vibrators, more than any other adult product, actively encourage
you to experiment with different positions and speeds to find the right
combination that hits your sexual buttons.
First, get in a position you find comfortable, such as on your back or
on your stomach. Turn the vibrator on low and start using to gently
touch your erogenous zones such as your nipples, inner thighs and around
your vagina. After getting used to the feel of the vibrator, apply a
little lube to the vibrator and your vagina and clitoris and begin to
gently rub the vibrator up and down your vagina. Start with a light,
almost teasing approach and gradually build up pressure until you reach
the point you’re most comfortable at. Remember to relax and enjoy
yourself!
Cleaning up Afterward
Every time you use your vibrator you should always clean it thoroughly
before using it again. Most vibrators can be cleaned with a simple soap
and water, but some models and material require special care.
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Techniques for using
Your Vibrator
We were born with hands, but that doesn't mean we knew
how to use a knife and fork from birth. The same
thing applies to using a vibrator. Just because a
woman has a vagina doesn't mean she automatically knows
how to use a vibrator, or how to get the maximum amount
of pleasure from one.
Most women will discover
what feels good through exploration when using a
vibrator, but there are some women who have used a
vibrator once or twice and fail to understand what all
the hype is about them. This is usually because
they rushed things.
There's more to getting
total satisfaction from your vibrator than just shoving
it in and out. Just like masturbating or having
sex, you need to take time to stimulate your clit, outer
lips, and other erogenous zones to get your sexual
senses heightened and your juices flowing.
The video clip at the
right
is only a couple of minutes long, but Renna demonstrates
some good techniques for using a vibrator such as
moving back and forth between
external stimulation and penetration, stimulating her
breast, nipple and clit with one hand while still using
the vibrator with the other, changing the speed of the
vibrator, changing the speed and force of her thrusts,
and slowing down as she nears orgasm to prolong her
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