 The
Ultimate Orgasm
While this information deals with a woman's orgasm, this article
it isn't just for women. In fact, if you're a man reading
this, we're going to make you a bedroom legend because we can
tell you from 'first hand experience' that you will be able to
give your wife or girlfriend one of the most incredible orgasms
she's ever experienced in her life!
- Women achieve an orgasm in one of
two ways. They either have an orgasm from clitoral stimulation, or
by stimulating their G-Spot.
- Many women's bodies have learned
to take turns and and achieve an orgasm from clitoral stimulation
sometimes, and achieve orgasm from G-Spot stimulation other times,
so sometimes they will reach a clitoral orgasm during sex or when
masturbating, and other times achieve a G-Spot orgasm.
- But the ones that have learned to
achieve a Clitoral AND G-Spot orgasm at the SAME TIME have
discovered the secret to having an orgasm so explosive and intense
that it can only be described as the ULTIMATE ORGASM!
So, what’s the big secret to this
incredible orgasm?
Not much really. It takes some specific techniques and a bit of
practice, but it’s a skill that both men and women can easily master,
and we're going to teach you how to do it!
It is possible to achieve the Ultimate Orgasm by using just your
fingers, but a G-Spot vibrator is recommended. Some women may also
need to use a Dolphin or Beaver vibrator for increased clitoral
stimulation. A rabbit vibrator isn't recommended because you will
need to be able to stimulate your G-Spot without any clitoral
stimulation. Click Here if you're
not familiar with the different types of vibrators.
For women reading this, it’s best to start by masturbating solo.
Before you pursue a simultaneous orgasm with your guy, it’s a good idea
to learn the ropes on your own so you’re then able to better direct him,
explains Lori Buckley, PsyD, a certified sex therapist in Pasadena,
California.
For the men reading this, simply learn the techniques we teach the women
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How to achieve the Ultimate Orgasm
Start by getting undressed and lying on your back with your legs spread
comfortably. Take a few minutes and let your body relax, then
start stroking your clit gently at first. As you feel yourself
becoming more aroused, start rubbing harder and faster until you feel
yourself building up to a clitoral orgasm. Keep going as long as
you can before you cum.
When you’re at the edge and you reach the point that you’re ready to
cum, STOP and take your hand off of your clit.
Completely ignore your clit for now and insert a G-Spot vibrator into
your pussy. Start massaging your G-Spot with the vibrator, and
continue to stimulate ONLY your G-Spot until your level of arousal
reaches the point you can feel an orgasm starting to build.
Now it’s time to stimulate your clit again with either your fingers or a
second vibrator, but keep stimulating your G-Spot with the G-Spot
vibrator. Since you should be at the point a G-Spot orgasm is
immanent, start rubbing your clit and your G-Spot full force! It
shouldn't take long before you start to feel an explosive, pulsing kind
of orgasm like you've never felt before!
That's all there is to it!
Like we said, it's actually a very simple technique once you know how to
do it.
Tips for the men reading this: No matter how skilled you are at
sex, or how big your cock is, it has never vibrated and never will.
Even though you can use the techniques described above during sex, to
really bring her to an orgasm like she's never had before, use the
G-Spot vibrator and a Dolphin or Beaver vibrator to bring her to the
Ultimate Orgasm by masturbating her! Just watch her body language,
or have her tell you when she's ready to cum so you can switch from
stimulating her clit to her G-Spot, and then both. You'll get the
pleasure of getting her off harder than ever before, and she'll be in
heaven!
After all, every woman deserves to have the most intense, explosive and
euphoric orgasm possible... the ULTIMATE ORGASM!
If you're having trouble achieving a simultaneous orgasm, we've included
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Rub your clit until you feel an orgasm coming on |
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Stop rubbing your clit and stimulate your G-Spot |
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and G-Spot full force until you cum! |
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It was good, but I only had a clitoral
or G-Spot orgasm, not both
If you don't have a simultaneous orgasm the first or even second
time you try this technique, don’t worry. Your body is use
to doing things a certain way, including having an orgasm, and
many women have to keep practicing this technique to ‘fine tune’
their body to learn how to have a clitoral and G-Spot orgasm
simultaneously.
If you can’t seem to reach a simultaneous clitoral and G-Spot
orgasm, try varying the length of time you spend stimulating
your clit, your G-Spot, and both. Another thing to try is
to vary the amount of pressure and speed on your clit or your
G-Spot. If you’re reaching a clitoral orgasm and not a
G-Spot orgasm, reduce the amount of stimulation on your clit.
If you’re achieving a G-Spot orgasm but not a clitoral orgasm,
decrease the amount of simulation you’re applying to your
G-Spot.
If you're only using your fingers you may need to use a G-Spot
vibrator for increased G-Spot stimulation, and possibly a
Dolphin or Beaver vibrator for increased clitoral stimulation as
well.
Try switching back and forth from your clit to your G-Spot
If your body just can't seem to get the hang of a simultaneous
orgasm, try masturbating your clit and then your G-Spot just
like we explained above, but when you feel yourself reaching a
G-Spot orgasm, turn off the G-Spot vibrator and start rubbing
your clit again. Once a clitoral orgasm feels immanent,
stop and return to stimulating your G-Spot. By switching
back and forth between clitoral and G-Spot stimulation and
waiting as long as possible until just before you have an orgasm
each time before stopping, your body should eventually reach the
point where you feel you can't stop yourself from having an
orgasm no matter what. At that point, begin rubbing your
clit and G-Spot furiously. This back and forth technique
will almost guarantee the most incredible orgasm you've ever
had.
Masturbate more often
If masturbating is something you don't do on a regular basis,
this could be the problem too and you may have to spend more
time masturbating until you are more comfortable with it. |
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Teaching your partner the technique.
OK, you’ve perfected your timing and you can bring yourself to the
Ultimate Orgasm any time you want. Now it’s time to teach your partner
how to do it.
First off, you and your partner have to be comfortable communicating
during sex. If you’re not, tell him in advance that you’ve learned a new
technique and you want to teach it to him.
Start by lying on your back in the Missionary position, but with
your hips raised and your back straight, and your legs spread wide
enough for your partner to kneel between them. The object is for
you to have access to your clit and for him to penetrate you at an
upward angle slightly more than 90 degrees. This will not only
make sure he will hit your G-Spot, but make sure his cock provides
steady and continuous stimulation to your G-Spot as he thrusts.
Keeping just the right angle can be difficult, and you will
probably need to use a sex wedge for support under your back in order to
keep your back straight. If you don’t have a sex wedge, you can
try a firm pillow or two, but it will be hard to keep your back
straight, and hard to keep the pillows from moving as he thrusts.
You will eventually want to invest in a product like an inflatable sex
ramp or the Liberator Ramp to make sure you always get and KEEP the
right angle necessary for the continuous stimulation you need on your
G-Spot. These are available at either
Adam & Eve,
Passions Unchained Sex Toys or
Hustler Hollywood.
The inflatable models are cheaper than the solid construction
models, but don't worry. Whether you choose inflatable or solid
construction, you’ll find plenty of other positions to use it in such as
Doggie Style, so it’s not like you’ll be buying it just for this one
position.
Start off by teasing your clit, just like you did when you practiced
this by yourself. When you're ready to cum, stop and have him
penetrate you slowly, then begin thrusting harder until you feel
yourself getting ready to cum.
Ask him to stop thrusting and remain very still while you start rubbing
your clit again. Most men will be more than happy to wait as they watch
you tease your clit with your fingers. When you feel yourself
nearing a clitoral orgasm, stop rubbing your clit and have your partner
begin thrusting again.
Continue rotating back and forth between your partner thrusting against
your G-Spot and rubbing your clit until just before you feel yourself
reach the point that you can’t stop yourself from cumming any more. Now,
have your partner start fucking you hard and fast as you rub your clit
as fast as you need to in order to match your clitoral orgasm with your
G-Spot orgasm.
If you’ve practiced enough to control them both, you should be able to
cum simultaneously with one of the most powerful orgasms you’ve ever
had!
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You need
to be positioned so he will not only hit your G-Spot,
but stimulate it continuously as he thrusts |
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Use a
sex wedge to guarantee you get and KEEP the right angle
for proper G-Spot stimulation |
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him hold very still while you rub your clit |
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Tweaking your orgasm for maximum
pleasure
Although enjoying the Ultimate Orgasm is something few woman have had
the pleasure of experiencing, it can still be tweaked for even more
intense, mind blowing pleasure, both when you’re masturbating, and with
a partner!
When you’re masturbating, instead of using your fingers, try using both
a G-Spot vibrator to stimulate your G-Spot and a Dolphin vibe, a Beaver
vibe or a Pocket Rocket to stimulate your clit. If you love the
sensations a vibrator gives you, this should cause you to cum harder
than you ever thought possible.
Most women like sex in the Doggie Style position. Just like the
Missionary position, a sex wedge gives you just the right angle and
support so that the man's cock naturally finds the woman's G-Spot when
he's fucking you from behind. The wedge will block your access to
your clit if your body is all the way forward and your thighs are
against it, so he will have to reach around and use his hand to
stimulate it for you. If you prefer to stimulate your clit
yourself, slide back on the ramp just far enough to give you access to
your clit. You will still have the right angle and support from
the wedge for him to hit and stimulate your G-Spot.
For more control over your G-Spot stimulation, try the Cowgirl position
(woman on top). Face your guy, lower yourself onto his cock, and
then lean forward. You’ll feel his cock rubbing against G-Spot.
Because you’re on top, you can thrust fast or slow, up and down, or in
circles while you or he rubs your clit.
By leaning far enough forward in the Cowgirl position, your clitoris
will rub against his pelvis as you thrust, and you may be able to
achieve hands free stimulation that will culminate in the Ultimate
Orgasm.
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same techniques Doggie Style |
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Add stimulation to other erogenous
zones
Are you cumming hard, but not seeing stars yet? Or maybe
you are seeing stars, but just can’t get enough! There’s
nothing wrong with that, and the best way to take your orgasm
even farther over the edge is to stimulate your other erogenous
zones.
Try wearing on a pair of vibrating nipple clamps to keep your
nipples stimulated! Many women can have what we call a
nipplegasm, which is an orgasm brought on from nothing more than
having their nipples stimulated long enough. If this is
you, then adding a pair of vibrating nipple clamps to your sex
session should take you over the edge when you cum!
Still want more?
If you’re an ass aficionado, and anal sex sends you over the
edge, you can use a vibrating butt plug while you’re partner is
fucking your pussy, or have your partner fuck you in the ass and
use the G-Spot vibrator to stimulate your G-Spot!
Of course, you can combine the vibrating nipple clamps, a
vibrating butt plug, a G-Spot vibrator, and a regular vibrator
in any combination you want to send you so far over the edge
when you cum you may feel like you’re body has completely left
this world behind!
All of these products and more are available at
Adam & Eve,
Passions Unchained Sex Toys &
Hustler Hollywood.
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Distinguishing between a G-Spot orgasm
and a clitoral orgasm
The first thing you need to understand is that a clitoral orgasm
is usually easier for a woman to achieve. Most women can
reach a clitoral orgasm faster than a G-Spot orgasm since the
clit is easier to stimulate, and many women that have
experienced clitoral orgasms may have never had a G-Spot orgasm.
Of the two, the G-Spot orgasm has been described as the more
‘intense’ or ‘deeper’ orgasm since it starts inside a woman's
body and 'expands' outwards.
If you’ve only experienced a clitoral orgasm in the past, you
may need to spend some time masturbating and learn how to bring
yourself to a clitoral orgasm and a G-Spot orgasm separately so
that your body can distinguish between the two.
If you’re not sure where your G-Spot is, locate it this way:
Insert a finger palm-up about an inch or two into your vagina,
feeling for a spongy or puckered area along the front wall.
You’ll know you’ve found it when a warm, sexy sensation washes
over you. You may even feel like you need to pee because
your G-Spot is near your bladder, so it can trigger the urge to
urinate. Don’t worry, this feeling should subside in a few
seconds.
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Added stimulation for achieving
an orgasm
If you have trouble experiencing a G-Spot orgasm, you're not
alone. Many women have never experienced a G-Spot orgasm.
If this the the case, we recommend purchasing a G-Spot vibrator.
Unlike other vibrators, a G-Spot vibrator is curved at the end
so it will proved direct contact a woman's G-Spot.
Although a lot of Rabbit Vibrators are curved to reach a woman's
G-Spot, for the Ultimate Orgasm you won't want the 'Rabbit Ears'
stimulating your clit, so you need a non-Rabbit style G-Spot
vibrator. The G-Spot vibrator will also help you to reach
your G-Spot easier with one hand while your rubbing your clit
with the other.
If you're having trouble experiencing a clitoral orgasm, try
using a Dolphin, Beaver or Pocket Rocket vibrator. The
Dolphin or Beaver vibrators are medium size vibrators that have
a tip that tapers down to a point for more direct clitoral
stimulation. A Pocket Rocket is a small but powerful
vibrator also designed for direct clitoral stimulation.
If you don't have an adult sex toy store in your area, or you're
not comfortable going into one, you can find a huge selection of
vibrators online at
Adam & Eve,
Passions Unchained Sex Toys or
Hustler Hollywood.
Other recommendations are the DVDs 'Unlocking the Secrets of
the G-Spot: The Ultimate O' or 'Nina Hartley's Guide To
G-Spot Sex'. These videos offer excellent information
to help you learn how to have a G-Spot orgasm and should be
available at either
Adam & Eve,
Passions Unchained Sex Toys or
Hustler Hollywood.
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