A stranger knocks at the door. She opens
it. He quickly pushes his way inside and grabs her. She struggles but he
easily overpowers her. She's helpless as he pins her wrists over her
head against the wall with one hand while the other reaches under her
skirt and fondles her tender flesh. She begs him to stop, but he ignores
her and tears her clothes off. He drags her naked to the bedroom and
forces her to her knees. One of his hands pulls her arm behind her while
the other hand grabs the back of her neck and pushes her forward. She is
helpless as he moves in closer from behind and rapes her... gently.
This fantasy, or one similar to it, is the number one sexual
fantasy for women. As strange as it may seem to some, rape is a
massively popular fantasy among women.
It's so popular that Masters and Johnson say it is second only
to fantasizing about sex with a different partner.
Author Nancy Friday, the diligent collector of female fantasies
(My Secret Garden, Forbidden Flowers) says it is second to none.
The information we gathered for our research on the most popular
women's fantasies here at Passions Unchained confirms that Being Raped /
Sexually Ravaged / Dominated & Forced to Have Sex is indeed the
number one sexual fantasy for women.
In all of the sexual fantasy articles, surveys, polls, top ten
lists of sexual fantasies we sorted through for our research for The
Definitive Top Ten Women's Sexual Fantasies we not only saw variations
of the 'being raped, held down and ravaged sexually, or being dominated
and forced to have sex' fantasies consistently being the number one
sexual fantasy for women, but when we totaled up all of the times these
types of fantasies appeared as number one, they were almost four times
as popular the second most popular fantasy of 'Willingly being carried
off by a sexy stranger,' which is a slightly more detailed version of
Masters and Johnson's second most popular fantasy of having sex with a
different partner.
Isabella Snow, a Relationship Correspondent for askmen.com,
says: "As mentioned in our Common Female Fantasies article, rape is a
massively popular fantasy among women. Most psychologists believe this
number one female sex fantasy allows a woman to have the wild, dirty sex
she craves, without having to suffer the guilt that often follows. These
female sex fantasies usually involve a gorgeous man carrying her off to
his bedroom and quickly getting down to business. She’ll protest as he
tears her clothing off and expertly arouses her body, but on the inside,
she’ll love every minute of it. This continues to the point of
penetration, and leads her to an incredible orgasm despite her earlier
protests. This female sex fantasy allows a woman to be wanton and enjoy
sex -- something society rarely permits."
Krista with healthyplace.com interviewed a group of women about
women's fantasies and says this about the rape fantasy: "Although
saying 'rape fantasy' sounds somewhat unthinkable, that's exactly what
most women call it. They want to play the innocent, naive, unknowing
little girl who gets taken advantage of by the devious, predator-like
man. Forcibly pushing her against the wall and "pinning my arms
above my head with one hand while the other hand has made its way under
my skirt and is fondling my vagina," received nods of approval by all
the women in the room. Andrea (one of the women in the group) went even
further expecting the man to "rip off my clothes, force open my legs,
penetrate me, and concurrently smear my lipstick all over my face with
his forceful kiss." Hmmm, interesting.
Guys, please keep in mind that these are fantasies; don't read
this article and take it as a reason to get medieval on your women. The
reason fantasies are so cherished is because the majority of them will
never be realized."
A rape or forced sex fantasy is most closely related to BDSM and
Bondage Play without the whips or paddles. Rather than being a willing
slave that obeys her Master's commands, the woman 'fights back and
resists her attacker.' Unlike a traditional BDSM fantasy where
punishment typically involves some levels of physical pain and extended
periods of restraint, in a rape fantasy the punishment is sexual
intercourse... particularly gentle sexual intercourse.
For some further insight as to why this type of fantasy is so
popular among women, consider the women's second most popular fantasy of
'Willingly being carried off by a sexy stranger. (#2)'
While this may bring to mind a 'romance novel' type of setting
for some people where a 'Fabio' type character carries a woman off into
the sunset, not every woman has that image come to mind.
When writing about this fantasy, Isabella Snow says: "Sex
with a stranger. Most women wouldn’t have the chutzpah to act out this
top 10 female sex fantasy, but you’d better believe that most have
thoroughly enjoyed thinking about it. No-strings-attached sex is
something many women would love to experience, but most are dissuaded
from it thanks to a lofty load of self-produced guilt. Nevertheless, her
panties definitely get wet at the idea of a gorgeous male approaching
her in a dark, smoky bar and taking her back to his room for a long, hot
night of wild sex. This female sex fantasy appeals to her naughtiest
side -- the kinky one that rarely sees the light of day, thanks to a
lifetime of religious and societal conditioning."
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