What are Ben-Wa Balls?

Ben-Wa balls are one of the most misunderstood and under-appreciated sex toys on the market. They are admittedly unusual compared to vibrators or dildos, but Ben-Wa balls offer a diverse set of benefits that should please even the most demanding user.

Ben-Wa balls are specialized balls for beads that can be connected or individual. These beads contain a weighted ball bearing that moves inside the balls whenever you shake them. If you’ve ever tried a pair of Chinese worry balls, Ben-Wa balls feel and work similarly but are much smaller. They produce a varied, grinding-type of sensation that provides superior vaginal or anal stimulation.

Ben-Wa Ball Stimulation
The main attraction is that Ben-Wa balls provide constant stimulation whenever you move and the motion of the balls is completely random so you never know what to expect and you never get accustomed to the sensations like one can with vibrators or other sex toys.

Ben-Wa balls are especially beneficial for Kegal exercises, which strengthen a woman’s pelvic muscles. By squeezing and releasing the balls, you can drastically improve the benefits of Kegal workouts while also rewarding yourself with enhanced pleasure.

Ben-Wa balls are also quite enjoyable to work in and out of the vagina or anus because their shape differs so much from the straight shaft found on so many other sex toys. Many users find the new shape to be stimulating just for the sake of variety.

How To Use Ben Wa Balls
You can go to the gym every day and fail to strengthen your most intimate muscles - for that, you'll need Ben Wa balls and a few tips on how to use them. These small, weighted spheres were originally intended to enhance sex for men - they love the feel of the balls when you insert them right before penetration - but women also greatly enjoy the increased feeling of fullness and the pressure that Ben Wa balls provide.

How to Use Ben Wa Balls to Strengthen Your PC Muscles
Ben Wa balls can be used to strengthen the PC, or pubococcygeus, muscles. These muscles stop the flow of urine and can also tighten and strengthen the vaginal opening. Many women want to pump up their PC muscles for sexual enhancement, especially after having children or as they age. Using Ben Wa balls in this manner is simple:  Just insert them into your vagina as you would a tampon and go about your day as usual, concentrating on using your muscles to hold them inside your body.

Try it for a couple of hours each day, sticking close to home and avoiding strenuous activity until you're certain you can keep the Ben Wa balls securely inside. As your muscles gain strength, you can graduate to heavier, metal versions to challenge yourself. You'll certainly feel the difference during sex - when your lover enters you, give him a good squeeze to show off your hard work!

Of course, Ben Wa balls are used purely for pleasure as well.  Many women report feelings of arousal while these toys are inside them, due to the pressure and additional sensations they yield. Original Ben Wa balls didn't vibrate, but vibrating Ben Wa balls are available as well.

Ben-Wa Ball Stimulation
The main attraction is that Ben-Wa balls provide constant stimulation whenever you move and the motion of the balls is completely random so you never know what to expect and you never get accustomed to the sensations like one can with vibrators or other sex toys.

Ben-Wa balls are especially beneficial for Kegal exercises, which strengthen a woman’s pelvic muscles. By squeezing and releasing the balls, you can drastically improve the benefits of Kegal workouts while also rewarding yourself with enhanced pleasure.

Whether you like to play rough or simply want to expand your sexual repertoire, nipple clamps can be a lot of fun when used properly. The nipples are sensual centers for men and women, containing millions of nerve endings, and tweaking them and restricting the blood flow temporarily can offer a "hurts so good" thrill.

So how do you get started with these pleasure toys?  First, experiment on a less-sensitive part of the body, such as the webbing between your thumb and fingers or your ear lobe. If your clamps are adjustable, start at the lightest pressure and work your way up to find the level you like best.  If you've never used a set of nipple clamps, or you have very sensitive nipples, we recommend that you select ones with an adjustable clamp for your first pair to make sure the pressure causes more pain than pleasure.

How to Use Nipple Clamps for Men and Women
When it's time to get to the main event, take the time to titillate your partner's (or your own!) little nubs. Once they're standing at attention, clamp away! Keep in mind that you are restricting the blood flow to these sensitive areas, so don't keep them in place longer than 10 to 15 minutes. While these pleasure toys are in place, you can continue to stimulate the area in a number of ways. Some love clamps come with attached chains. The chains add weight and can be used to lead your "victim" wherever you please. You can also further arouse the nipples with a vibrator, feather or ice cube.

For more fun you can clip these babies onto your tongue, ear lobes or genitals for extra pleasure!

Almost everyone loves oral sex - who wouldn't love the feeling of soft, warm lips and a tickly, slippery tongue on their nether regions - but did you know that there are toys that can make this mind-blowing experience even better? If you pride yourself on your blow job (or cunnilingus) skills, then you'll be thrilled to discover some new ways to ramp up your "O" game.

Oral sex toys are divided into four main categories:

• Tongue vibrators to add a little zip to your lick
• Flavored gels to tantalize your taste buds
• Candy and mints to provide extra sensation for your lover or allow for deeper thrusting
• Two words: edible underwear

Get Ready to Gobble Up Oral Sex Toys!