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Sex Positions -
The Naughtiest Sex
Position
According to Cosmopolitan readers, doing
it up against the wall brings out the 'gotta-have-your-body-now!'
erotic thrill in both of you:
"Obviously, there are plenty of amazing
sex positions to choose from, and we've brought you our
fair share of them. But there's one in particular that
rises above the rest on the steaminess meter: getting
busy against a wall. In a recent Cosmo poll, men
(and women too) voted this sexiest position of all.
(Maybe we can thank the lusty library scene in
Atonement, when James McAvoy ravishes Keira Knightley
against a wall-to-wall bookshelf!)
The basic primal nature of having sex
against a wall is the reason why it's unbelievably
torrid. "When you're so aroused that you just
can't wait another second, this is an immediate solution
for expressing that intensity," says Lori Buckley, PhD,
sex therapist in Pasadena, California. "The fact
that your guy is pressing you into the wall lends it an
urgent, almost aggressive feel." But while this
position couldn't be hotter, it's not the smoothest to
put into action. So it helps to have a primer."
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Maximize What Makes It So Scorching
The sense of urgency in wall sex is one
of its lustiest selling points. Amplify that by
leaving on some of your clothes, suggests Buckley.
Begin ripping off each other's attire as soon as you
walk through the door, yet don't take everything off —
for example, you can have him pull down your underwear
but keep your skirt on or unbutton his shirt without
stripping it off.
Also adding to the appeal is that you're
being dominated. "Some guys love to feel powerful,
and since he has you pinned against the wall, he's in
complete control of the pace and depth of his
thrusting," explains Sari locker, PhD, author of The
Complete Idiot's Guide to Amazing Sex. With your man
right in front of you and the wall buffering your back,
your movement is restricted. You'll experience a
sensation of vulnerability and confinement, which can be
a huge turn-on.
Another hot bonus is the superb clitoral
stimulation the position provides, according to Buckley.
Your pelvis is slightly lower than his, putting your hot
spot directly in line with his pubic bone. When he's
deep inside of you, gently rub your C-spot against him.
At the same time, tighten your thighs — it'll narrow
your vaginal canal, creating pleasurable friction.
Originally published in Cosmopolitan - September
2008
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