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Masturbation: mas-tər-ˈbā-shən |
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noun : The stimulation especially of ones own genitals
exclusive of sexual intercourse to achieve sexual
arousal and pleasure, usually to the point of orgasm. |
verb: master-batˇed, master-batˇing, master-bates.
v. intransite; To perform an act of masturbation.
v. transitive; To perform an act of masturbation on. |
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Nothing Says 'I
Love You' Like a Hand Job
Men and women love being masturbated by their partner, but being
masturbated by your partner has a different effect on men and
women. For most women, masturbating them builds their
emotional desire for sex, even if you masturbate them to orgasm.
Unless you continue to masturbate a woman through multiple
orgasms and finally to a climax, most women want to have sex
afterwards. The reasons for this may be due to the fact
that as humans we still have our ancestral instincts for
pro-creation, but it's more likely that her sexual desires have
not peaked unless you do bring a woman to a climax when
masturbating her.
Before we go any farther, it's important to understand what we
mean when we use the term 'climax.' When reading about
women's orgasms, many people use the term climax to describe an
orgasm, and some people incorrectly use the term climax to
describe the feelings a woman has as she builds to an orgasm.
Climax is even defined as an orgasm in the dictionary, but a
climax is also defined as the highest point : culmination : the
point of highest dramatic tension or a major turning point in
the action : the highest or most intense point in the
development or resolution of something.
If a woman only has one orgasm, then using the term climax is
understandable, but for our purposes we are going to define a
climax as the final orgasm a woman has during a series of
multiple orgasms, and it's a much more powerful orgasm than the
orgasms she has that help her build to a climax. Women
that have climaxed, and men that have brought a woman to climax
know there is a distinction between an orgasm and the climax
we're talking about.
If you're not aware of the biological aspects of a woman's
sexuality, you need to understand that just because a woman has
an orgasm doesn't mean her sexual desires have reached their
peak. To fully understand this concept, think of a woman's
climax as the maximum sexual satisfaction she can receive before
she is completely spent. After this peak, she is
physically and emotionally exhausted and her body needs to rest.
It is the peak of her sexual satisfaction.
If you think of sexual desires as waves, a man's sexual desires
rises quickly in one large wave, peaks when he cums, and then
drops off just as fast as it rose. Women's sexual desires
don't work this way. A women's desire builds slowly until
she achieves an orgasm. At this point, her desire may
level out some, but it hasn't peaked. A woman's sexual
wave has steps, and as she has multiple orgasms, her desire
continues to climb. It isn't until a woman reaches the
peak or the point of climax that her wave begins to drop.
This point is different for each woman. Some women may
climax after her second or third orgasm, or she may have four or
five orgasms before she reaches the point of climax. This
is the point where she is physically and emotionally exhausted
and her body needs to rest.
One thing that may be of interest is that the more orgasms a
woman has, and the more experienced she becomes through
masturbating, a woman can not only learn to control her orgasms,
she can actually control the point of climax to some degree.
It's not easy considering her body is reaching an emotional
state unlike any other, but once she learns how to delay her
climax for a minute or two, she can then bring it on at will.
Unless you masturbate a woman until she reaches her maximum
sexual satisfaction, or her climax, she will be left wanting
more.
Men are a different subject.
As we explained, a man's sexual desire is a single, large wave
that rises fast, peaks during the male orgasm, then drops off
quickly. When you masturbate a man and he cums, he's
satisfied. In fact masturbating a man can be more satisfying
than oral sex or intercourse, both physically and emotionally.
Physically because of the fact a woman's hand can squeeze a
man's cock tighter than her mouth or her pussy.
Emotionally because this is a boost to a man's ego. By
masturbating a man and not asking for anything in return, a
woman is telling a man his satisfaction is important to her.
This isn't to say men prefer to masturbated over oral sex or
intercourse, but like everything else in life it's nice to
experience new things. Since it takes much less time to
bring a man to an orgasm than it does a woman, most women might
want to consider treating their man like a king and giving
him a blow job or a hand job once in a while without asking for
anything in return.
Of course, it would benefit most men to return the favor once in
a while and treat her like a queen by performing oral sex and
masturbating a woman without asking for anything in return as
well. |
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Tip:
Try different positions when masturbating your partner
for different physical and visual stimulations. |
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Studies
have proven the benefits
of masturbating to our mental,
social and physical health.
Masturbating helps relieve depressive
emotions, relives emotional stress,
releases natural chemicals in our body that
cause feelings of physical and mental
well being, and strengthens our
sexual relationship with our partner. |
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