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Masturbation: mas-tər-ˈbā-shən |
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noun : The stimulation especially of ones own genitals
exclusive of sexual intercourse to achieve sexual
arousal and pleasure, usually to the point of orgasm. |
verb: master-batˇed, master-batˇing, master-bates.
v. intransite; To perform an act of masturbation.
v. transitive; To perform an act of masturbation on. |
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Masturbating for Couples
Some people believe that masturbation is only appropriate for
those without partners, but most people with regular partners
continue to masturbate throughout their adult life. There is
absolutely no truth to the idea that adults who masturbate must
be sexually deprived or inadequate.
Many people feel threatened with the knowledge that their
partner masturbates. Apparently they seem to think that if their
partner masturbates, they aren't satisfied with their sex life,
especially if their partner uses sex toys when they masturbate.
This is seldom true. Just because your wife or girlfriend owns a
Rabbit Vibrator doesn't mean you're not satisfying her sexually.
All it means is that she's discovered the fact that there are
more ways to experience sexual pleasure than having sex or
masturbating with her hand.
 Guys, I don't care how good you are in bed or how talented you
are with your hands, mouth or
even your cock. The fact remains
that your cock does not vibrate. It never has and it never will.
Your cock doesn't have a pair of vibrating rabbit ears
protruding from the top of its base to stimulate her clit
either, so relax and quit worrying if she uses a vibrator to
masturbate. Having a woman who masturbates is great because
she's more likely to orgasm during intercourse and oral sex. And
if she lets you watch, not only do you get your own private
show, but you can learn a ton about what makes her feel good and
what's comfortable for her.
The same thing goes for you ladies. You can give the best head,
the most fantastic hand jobs, and you can make your pussy and
ass pulse around a man's cock all you want. You can even have a
pussy so tight you can clamp it around a pencil and write your
name with it, but that sweet pussy of yours will never be lined
with pleasure nubs inside of it like some masturbators are. If
it is, you may want to go see a gynecologist... immediately!
Mutual Masturbation
The term mutual masturbation is often used to describe two
different acts. The first is where each partner masturbates them
self while watching each other. The second, and more common use
of the term is where the two partners masturbate one another
other simultaneously.
Masturbating each other at the same time is intimate, turns her
on, and allows both of you to learn more about what the other
likes which translates to hotter sex. The more you do it the
better you become at learning which buttons to push to make her
come faster, and make him last longer. Masturbating each other
is also a great quickie.
Many younger couples, or couples that haven't been together very
long may find talking about masturbating one another a touchy
subject. This is normal since many people still consider
masturbating a taboo, and talking about sex of any kind is
something many couples have a hard time doing.
If telling your partner you want to masturbate them while they
masturbate you is something you just can't bring yourself to do,
then try the following:
When you're in bed, straddle your partner's body and start
kissing them like you are going to have sex in the missionary
position. This will place them on their back. After a little
kissing, move to the side of your partner's body and kneel next
to them. Begin rubbing their body with your hands, then move one
hand to their pussy/cock. Begin by rubbing her pussy
gently/stroking his cock slowly while still rubbing on their
body with the other hand. After a few minutes start
rubbing/stroking harder. If your partner doesn't automatically
reach for your cock/pussy on their own, then take their hand and
gently guide it to your cock/pussy. This should be enough to
give them the idea of what you want.
If your partner is hesitant or asks what you're doing, smile and
tell them "I'm just enjoying myself" or "I wanted us to try
something new" and continue masturbating them.
If this doesn't work, or it backfires and your partner freaks
out and refuses to masturbate you or moves away, then you have
no choice but to talk to them about it no matter how
uncomfortable the subject may be at first. If your partner won't
even talk about masturbation with you, then they may have some
deep seeded negative emotions from childhood and you may want to
consider talking with a sex therapist.
Masturbation and Foreplay
Just like oral sex, masturbating a partner is common during
foreplay. Mutual masturbation before intercourse is very
satisfying for both couples, but it is especially satisfying for
women.
Men are fully stimulated within minutes, so masturbating a man
until just before intercourse may cause him to ejaculate
prematurely. If masturbating your male partner does cause
him to ejaculate prematurely, it may be a good idea to stop and
let him continue to masturbate you for a while before
intercourse.
It takes approximately 30 minutes of vaginal and clitoral
stimulation for most women to become fully stimulated sexually,
so masturbating her before intercourse helps prepare a woman for
an orgasm during intercourse.
One of the added pleasures to masturbating a woman before
intercourse is that you can bring her to orgasm, and then
continue masturbating her. Once a woman has her first
orgasm, her following orgasms come more quickly. This
means that if you masturbate her until she's had two or three
orgasms before having sex, the chances are good that not only
will she have another orgasm, but if you are able to control
your own orgasm, the two of you can cum simultaneously.
Masturbating During Sex
Obviously a man can't masturbate when his cock is in a woman's
pussy, but a woman can stimulate her clit during intercourse.
For women that have a hard time achieving an orgasm during
sexual intercourse, or have not been able to achieve an orgasm
during intercourse, masturbating her clit during intercourse may
be the added stimulation she needs to finally achieve that earth
shattering orgasm with her partner that she has always dreamed
of.
Remember, the male body provides little to no stimulation on a
woman's clit during intercourse. Even in a female superior
position (cowgirl) where a woman can grind against a mans pubic
mound to provide some clitoral stimulation, it's still not
enough stimulation for most women to achieve an orgasm.
In other positions, such as doggie style or reverse cowgirl
(female superior with the woman facing the man's feet), there is
no clitoral stimulation at all, so the only way most women can
achieve an orgasm in these positions is if she has been fully
stimulated before intercourse, either by her partner or by
masturbating. Even then many women still need to continue
the stimulation by rubbing her clit during intercourse to
achieve an orgasm.
Anal masturbation is also possible for both men and women during
sex. The nice thing is both partners can either masturbate
themselves anally, masturbate each other anally, or use a butt
plug during intercourse for added stimulation. |
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