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Bondage Clothing
I Don't Have a Thing to Wear
Whether you consider
yourself kinky or not, we all enjoy being a little
naughty once in a while, but too often many people that
are interested in playing out a bondage fantasy with
their partner feel like they're 'stepping over' to some
kind of dark side. This is understandable since playing
out any kind of sexual fantasy can be a little
intimidating for some people.
Like any role play fantasy, playing out a bondage
fantasy simply involves stepping outside of your normal
routine and exploring new avenues of sexual adventure
rather than 'stepping over' into some dark world.
If you're new to bondage, one of the easiest ways to get
your fantasy rolling is to start by dressing up for your
role as either the Dominant or the subordinate partner.
Dressing for the part of a Dom, Domme or sub will help
to make your bondage fantasy more enjoyable, and it will
help to get you both into the fantasy roles you are
playing.
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Female Sub Costume |
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An open cup bra
and panty makes a perfect sub costume and allows your
partner easy access to the intimate parts of your body. |
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Male
Dom
Costume |
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Combine a classic X Harness with a black studded
jock or boxer for a quick and effective Dom look. |
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Easy
Costumes |
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A black jock, brief, boxer or G String with
studded trim and a slave collar will add to the drama
for your bondage play. |
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Queen Size Black Teddy |
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Some full figured women prefer the way a
bustier, corset, babydoll or even a teddy helps conceal
to certain areas while still giving their lover easy
access to their body. All of these can be used as an
effective costume in a bondage fantasy. |
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Sexy
Bustier |
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Bustiers and corsets sold on adult web sites are
designed with sex in mind, so they are usually a lot
more erotic when it comes to their styling than ones
sold in lingerie stores or on mainstream web sites. |
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Leather Look Corset |
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Leather, vinyl or materials that look like
leather are always a popular choice for a Domme or sub
in a bondage fantasy. Materials like vinyl and pleather
can give you the leather look without the high price. |
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Mesh
Merry Widow |
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The Merry Widows sold on adult web sites are
usually designed more for style rather than function,
and are a lot sexier than today's nylon and lycra 'body
shaper' that has replaced the original merry widow. |
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The
'Medusa' |
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Made of stretch faux leather, fetish outfits
like the Medusa give you the BDSM look for around $30.
Add a pair of Ellie high heel shoes or thigh high boots
and you have a complete Domme or sub outfit for under
$100! |
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Ellie Shoes
& Boots |
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With
prices starting
under $50, you can complete your sub or Domme costume
without breaking the bank. The best part is, these
shoes are also designed for comfort as well as looks. |
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Shoes & Boots |
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While some of the more
exotic leather Domme outfits can cost hundreds or even thousands of
dollars, you don't have to spend a small fortune to 'look' the part. The
right corset or bustier, g-string, thong, stockings and a pair of
stiletto heels or boots can be used to create an erotic and effective
Dominatrix outfit, and there are plenty of leather or faux leather
jocks, briefs and harnesses with studs and attaching rings for men!
There are also complete
fetish outfits for around $30 that are made from stretchable faux
leather. These not only give you the look you are after, but the
stretch fabric makes them comfortable as well.
Add a pair of high heel shoes or boots from
Ellie Shoes
(available at Passions Unchained Sex Toys in sizes 6
through 10 for around $30 to $50), and you can easily create an entire
bondage role play outfit for under $100!
If you're a woman and
you're going to be the 'slave' or 'sub', you don't want
to wear clothing that is going to take too much time to
remove. You can always start out nude, but it's
more fun if you can make things a little more
interesting by wearing some lingerie that fits your
submissive role.
While a slave fantasy might not mean your wrists are
bound (see 'Subs Versus Slaves'), if your wrists are
going to be bound to each other, to the wall, bed, or
other fixed object, you'll want to choose your panties
and lingerie carefully so your Dom (or Domme as the case
may be) has easy access to your breasts, nipples, ass
and pussy without having to remove your restraints.
A sexy g-string, a thong or a skimpy pair of panties
that leaves little to the imagination is usually a good
choice since he can get his hand inside of them easily.
For lingerie, a low cut babydoll makes a nice outfit for
a sweet and innocent sub. Most babydolls are loose
and very low cut, so it's easy for the straps to slide
off your shoulders and give him access to your breasts
and nipples. Also, make sure it's extremely short
so it's easy for him to get his hand under it without
having to fuss with a lot of extra material.
If you don't wan to appear quite so sweet or innocent,
or just to add a little more kink to the fun, 6ou can
wear an open cup bra with a matching open crotch panty.
This will give your Dom easy access to your nipples,
your ass and your pussy without having to remove the bra
or panty at all!
Another popular option is a bustier, a corset, or a
merry widow. Corsets that don't cover the breasts
are very popular items in bondage fantasies as a costume
for both a female sub and a Domme. As well as
being sexy, there are some advantages to choosing one a
corset, bustier, merry widow, or even a babydoll over
being nude or wearing a bra and panty. Some women
are self conscience about their bodies, and since the
lights are going to be on, rather than be nude or wear a
bra and panty, they would prefer wearing something that
helps to flatter their figure.
Passions Unchained Sex Toys offers a huge selection
of sexy women's lingerie you can choose from.
A Dom can pretty much wear anything as far as clothing,
but if you really want to look the part, try a Fetish
Leather Shirt combined with a pair of Leather Gay
Locking Pants. There are also a large selection of
leather jock shorts available that will enhance your
Dominant appearance. These are also good if you're
playing the male sub in a female-superior bondage
fantasy. Just add a 'Gates of Hell', an 'Arab Strap', a
leather cock ring, or a leather ball stretcher and
you're ready to submit to your Mistress' every command.
If you're really into leather, there are even Leather
Fetish Men's Shorts and Leather Fetish socks.
If leather just isn't your thing, there are plenty of
latex or polyester underwear for men. A black
polyester jock or boxer with some studded details, or a
faux leather thong with a lace-up front will help you
look more the part more than just a plain pair of boxers
or briefs.
You can find a variety of kinky and erotic men's and
women's wear in the 'Bondage,
Fetish and Kink' or 'Lingerie,
Clothing and Jewelry' categories at
Passions Unchained Sex Toys.
"What's the difference
between the corset, bustier & merry widow?"
If you're not sure what
the difference is between a corset, a bustier and a
merry widow, don't feel alone. Most people don't
have a clue which one is which, and even the definitions
between them have become somewhat vague as manufacturers
create products that have features that cross over
between the three of them.
Why are we
even spending so much time talking about the difference
between these pieces of lingerie? Because the
bustier, the corset and the merry widow are very popular
choices as a costume for a bondage fantasy, and people
wanting to know the difference between them is a
frequently asked question.
If you're like the hundreds of other people reading
this, you probably get a little confused when it comes
to deciding whether to purchase a corset, a bustier, or
a merry widow, especially online, so to help clear up
the mystery between them, we not only explain the
difference in them, but also explain why so many items
that seem the same have different names... or why so
many items that seem different have the same name.
Originally
designed as an under-garment, the corset was popularized
as an outer-garment in the mainstream when pop star
Madonna wore one in her 2006 'Sorry' video, and a
similar one for her entrance at the Grammy Awards that
same year. The original corset worn in the video was
based on a reproduction of a circa 1900 Lilly corset in
white satin. The corset was altered by the
manufacturer to Madonna's requirements by having the
opening in the front changed to a specific length, and
later dyed purple for the video.
Corsets, bustiers, merry widows and variations of all
three are frequently worn as costumes by the actresses
in bondage videos and by the models in bondage photo
galleries, but most men and women have no idea what the
difference is between the them. They look almost
identical, and many manufacturers are breaking the
'rules' that distinguish between them. While this
adds to the confusion and makes the terms corset,
bustier and merry widow somewhat interchangeable, it
does offer buyers more options when purchasing them.
The Corset and Bustier
The main difference between a true corset and a
true bustier is that a corset is designed to make
a woman look curvy by holding them in the waist. A
corset has structure and is designed to support and
sculpt the body into a certain shape. The bustier
doesn't do this. The bustier is basically a bra
with a torso built into it, and is primarily designed to
work like a push-up bra to provide added cleavage.
The torso of the bustier may gently shape the waist and
can help smooth things out, but the bustier doesn't
sculpt the body or help to thin the waist like a corset
does. This makes a bustier better suited for
hiding a problem waist to make for a more flattering
look rather than mold and shape the torso for a desired
look like a corset does. But a corset doesn't have
cups like a bra, so it doesn't offer support for the
breasts or enhance a woman's cleavage like the bustier
does.
Some guidelines that further distinguish a corset from a
bustier is that a corset is strapless, covers a woman's
body from the bust down to the hips, does not have
garters attached, and may or may not cover the breasts.
A bustier has shoulder straps, covers the body from the
bust to either just below the ribs or to the waist, has
garters attached, and ALWAYS covers the breasts.
Many manufacturers of mainstream lingerie label their
products based on these guidelines... but not always.
The Merry Widow
Some people consider the 'merry widow' to be an
exception to the rule for a corset not having bra-like
cups. The merry widow was first made in 1952 for
the film 'The Merry Widow' starring Lana Turner, and
looks like a corset with bra-like demi cups and garters.
But technically, a merry widow isn't a corset;
it's a corselet. A corselet is a piece of lingerie
that shares the elements of both a bra and a girdle, and
was designed as a substitute for wearing two separate
pieces of underwear; namely a bra with either a girdle
or a corset. In the '50s merry widows weren't very
comfortable. Lana Turner is reported to have said,
"I am telling you, the merry widow was designed by a
man. A woman would never do that to another woman."
Part of the reason is that every woman that wears the
same size dress doesn't have the same size breasts.
Since a merry widow is supposed to sculpt the body
and support the breasts, you have a body size and
a breast size to deal with in one piece of supportive,
and sometimes restrictive clothing.
The true
merry widow is seldom seen today because each one made
for a specific body size has to be made with multiple
breast and cup sizes. This means that for each
corset made based on a woman's body size or each bustier
made based on a woman's breast size, each merry widow
made in one body size also has to be made for different
bra sizes, and each one of those has to be made to
accommodate different cup sizes. While this kind
of variety may be feasible in the bra market or as an
unattractive 'body shaper', the true merry widow isn't a
common enough item for manufacturers to produce that
large of a variety of them. A true merry widow
usually has to be custom made to match a woman's body,
breast and cup size, and can be extremely expensive.
It's much easier, and cheaper, to use a stretch fabric
to accommodate a variety of breast sizes, or more
commonly use the term merry widow to describe an item
that would be more accurately defined as a bustier.
Today's version of a mass produced merry widow is often
called a 'body shaper' and is made from stretchable
nylon and lycra. This allows them t sculpt the
body and support the breasts, but these body shapers
aren't what anyone would consider sexy, and would not be
anyone's choice as a costume for a bondage fantasy... or
any other sexual fantasy for that matter!
The merry widows sold on adult sites are both sexy and
comfortable, but that's because they are designed more
for style rather than function. As a rule of
thumb, these are classified as merry widows simply
because they have shoulder straps, they cover the
breasts, and they have built in garters. They
flatter your body rather than shape it, and merry widows
made from materials like mesh usually offer no actual
breast support or body sculpting features of any kind.
Style Versus Function
The corsets and bustiers offered in the mainstream
lingerie stores tend to follow the rules more closely
when it comes to the function of a corset, bustier,
merry widow or body shaper, but the colors are usually
limited to solids, particularly white, and styles
definitely lack the sex appeal that the ones sold on
adult sites have. This is understandable because
these are functional under-garments, and like a
bra or a slip, they aren't suppose to stand out
and be visible under your clothes, or be sexy to look
at.
Corsets and bustiers sold on the adult web sites tend to
focus more on the erotic aspect of fashion rather than
making sure the corset or bustier remains hidden under
the clothes. Many of them are still functional in
their design as well as sexy. The corsets still
offer body sculpting and support, and the bustiers still
have a built in bra, but they also stand out with bright
color combinations and lots of decorative lace, bows and
laces.
Moving away from function and focusing more on erotic
fashion, adult sites offer bustiers with demi cups that
offer less coverage over the breasts and more exposed
flesh, but still offer the function of a demi bra, and
corsets that stop at the waist rather than the hips,
offering little or none of the waist sculpting features
of an actual corset.
Moving even farther away from function, the adult web
sites carry leather and vinyl bustiers, halter bustiers
with an extremely deep-plunging neckline, sheer
lace see-through bustiers, 'peek-a-boo bustiers' that
leave the breasts fully exposed, satin merry widows that
offer little to no bra-like support, cupless merry
widows, and merry widows made from see-through sheer
mesh. Although these products are called corsets,
bustiers and merry widows, they are designed to flatter
your body and seldom offer the supportive features of
the actual products they are named for.
So why do manufacturers call these products corsets,
bustiers and merry widows when they don't follow the
rules that define what these items really are?
To satisfy consumer desires for erotic fashions,
manufacturers try to offer a wide variety of products.
It makes more sense to use a name of an existing product
that has some of the features of the new product rather
than come up with a new name every time they create a
new product that varies from the original in style or
function.
Buying from the Mainstream or from and Adult Web Site
Many of the corsets and bustiers you can buy at a
mainstream lingerie store or lingerie web site are cute,
and they may offer more body shaping features than some
of the ones sold on an adult site. Many of these
mainstream pieces might even be acceptable for a female
sub in a bondage fantasy, but most of the items lack the
raw sex appeal of the ones you can buy on an adult web
site.
If you're
buying a corset or bustier to be a Domme or Mistress in
a bondage fantasy, you can forget all about buying from
the mainstream lingerie stores and web sites! They
don't offer anything that comes close to being as sexual
and erotic as the products the adult web sites carry.
Regardless of whether your body is toned and tight,
or you feel the need to cover up some problem
areas, when it comes to buying any kind of lingerie for
a role play fantasy, sex appeal should ALWAYS be your
number one priority. With this in mind, the
lingerie sold on the adult web sites are the ONLY way to
go.
Fetish Wear by design
While an
outfit for a bondage fantasy can be created by mixing
and matching different pieces of lingerie, sometimes
it's easier to get a outfit that has been designed with
a BDSM theme in mind.
Many people
that are heavy into the BDSM lifestyle prefer exotic
outfits made of leather and lace with studs, chains and
metal rings for laces designed into the costume.
But for many couples that just enjoy incorporating a
little playful bondage into their sex lives once in a
while, spending hundreds or even thousands of dollars on
these exotic costumes may not be realistic.
Not to
worry. There are fetish wear outfits
available that not only give you the BDSM 'look' you
want for your bondage fantasies, but the faux leather
keeps the price reasonable. You can get fetish
wear outfits like the Medusa for around $30. Add a
pair of genuine Ellie high heel shoes or boots for about
$30 to $50 and a good quality whip or paddle, and you can have a
complete Dominatrix outfit for
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Add a blindfold and wrist restraints to a kinky
black mesh open cup teddie or naughty mesh
halter to instantly become the perfect sub in
your bondage fantasy. Slip into a sexy see
through black club dress to transform yourself
into the Mistress that will have him begging you
for more!
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